Medications for Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) are a hot topic, and have been since they first “caught on” in the 80s. Most professionals and laypeople agree that these medications were overprescribed and misused back in the day (all the 80/90s kids remember that kid who turned into a zombie after lunch meds…). While psychologists in Littleton do not prescribe medications, we are often the first professionals that families talk to about this option, especially if we have diagnosed a child with ADHD. Fortunately, there has been a lot more work done in the field since the 1900s, and skilled child psychiatrists are working to help kids get on the proper dosages of the right meds that actually help them reach their full potential–not just sedating them so they aren’t such a bother! Keep reading to see what “old news” about ADHD and ADHD medications should be left to history.
Myth #1: Kids will grow out of ADHD; just let them grow out of this phase
What is most clear is that ADHD is a clearly recognizable and valid neurodevelopmental difference. The brain is “wired” differently, if you will (more accurately, it responds differently to brain chemical stimuli). Littleton Child Psychologists know that these differences are lifelong, although many people develop the maturity and tools to manage those differences more successfully as they become adults. This occurs closer to mid-20s, when the brain fully finishes growing—years after your child’s formative period. Also, by adulthood, we usually have a lot more freedom—unlike at school, where sitting still is prioritized, most entry-level jobs for young people require standing and moving around constantly, and one can choose a field that is more suitable (i.e., working construction instead of at the library). In childhood, the core challenges of ADHD are compounded by normal, age-appropriate difficulties. Every child is likely to struggle with poor planning, inattention, easy anger, and impulsivity, but those with ADHD have even greater challenges. Most children with ADHD do not “grow out” of it; they learn workarounds and stop asking for help. As adults, they may experience burnout, anxiety, or depression as these workarounds vary in effectiveness. Although some adults can manage their ADHD without medication, it can be an immediately effective game-changer, for kids and adults.
Myth #2: A child with ADHD can do just fine with therapy and support
Child Psychologists in Littleton do lots of work with kids who have been diagnosed with ADHD, and many thrive with some modifications. Working on executive function skills in particular can be very helpful! For children under 6, behavioral and structural interventions are always recommended as first-line approaches. But the same treatment does not work for every single child—others need more help. Changing structures and expectations, providing support, and practicing targeted activities such as memory or coping tools can help, but sometimes they are not enough. When parents and child are trying their best and still not reaching the goals they want to see, consulting with a psychiatrist can be a game-changer. In fact, many studies show that the combination of evidence-based medication and therapy together produces far better benefits than either one on its own.
Myth #3: ADHD meds will turn my kid into a different child!
There’s a lot of misinformation out there, particularly on social media these days (TikTok is becoming an anti-information source for mental health because fearmongering posts get more views!). Most of these myths prey on parents’ biggest fears—that medications will change personalities, cause cancer or heart disease, stunt growth, or be an “excuse.” A lot of these are the same unfounded arguments that people make about other medical recommendations, such as getting vaccinations, taking prescribed medications for chronic conditions like diabetes or depression, or even getting pets neutered. However, research does not line up with this. Littleton psychologists know that, for most people, medications for ADHD are quite safe when used as prescribed. For some people, there may be risks associated, but that’s why you work with a knowledgeable psychiatric provider. Stimulant meds can reduce appetite, which can lead to weight/growth concerns in some children, but not all children and not all meds have this issue. There are dozens of different medications approved for use with children who have been diagnosed with ADHD, and they all work a little differently. Your psychiatric prescriber should be able to work with you to find the best one.
Myth #4: My child will hate me forever for putting her on ADHD meds
Do you resent the meds you had to take as a child? Do you have a family member or friend who was harmed by poor prescribing practices in the past? How many other people’s experiences have you consulted? There are thousands of accounts on ADHD forums and discussion boards and usually there are equal complaints: many people who took ADHD meds as a child and resented it, many people who were diagnosed with ADHD as a child but didn’t start meds until they were adults and resented not having medication earlier. Every person’s body is different, and there are many different types of medication options available. Don’t forget—you don’t have to be the sole decision-maker on this! Your child’s psychologist, pediatrician, and psychiatric provider can all work with your child to ensure you are making a strong decision. You can schedule a consultation with a psychiatric provider just to discuss possibilities and get questions answered, no “commitment” to starting any meds.
Child psychologists in Colorado do not prescribe ADHD medications, but we have plenty of conversations with parents about it! If your child psychologist has suggested checking with your pediatrician or a child psychiatrist, don’t let outdated myths get in your way.
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